12 Video Dating Tips to Master Virtual Dates

Are you assuming that you would feel chemistry on a first or second call? Take a breathe, then!

Set your mind as it would be hard to feel it on call. Instead, focus on simply enjoying and spending time with each other. If you enjoy video dating, you should meet in person to know him/her better and judge chemistry. It won’t disappoint you and your feelings.

The vibing of a bar or restaurant has the power to set the tone of a date. It’s important for virtual dates too! The right background depicts your personality. A tidy space, with good lighting and nicely decorated wall looks amazing. We are sure you don’t want to show your bathroom or pile of dirty laundry.

Keep in mind that you don’t have any personal photos or information you don’t want your date to see. Building trust takes time. You can’t take a chance until you trust the other person.

Lighting is an important factor so set yourself up before starting the call. If your date is during the day, face outward towards a window for good natural light. If it is in the evening, putting a lamp behind your screen or a ring light also works well. Make sure it is front lighting, as backlighting will make you look like a shadow.

It’s a digital date and dressing up isn’t that important. Hey, you might be wrong here! You can’t neglect looks. You might not get another chance to make a good first impression. After all, first is first!

Dressing up will boost your mood and make the experience feel more special. Ladies, wear your favorite top and do your hair. Men, no wrinkled shirts please! Make an extra effort and look your best.

Are you scrambling and worrying about your camera angles? Do it beforehand, at least an hour before, to not get messed up. Set your laptop at eye level, which makes it a flattering angle. One thing to consider is having your face too far or too close.

It’s tempting to use a phone, but we suggest using a computer or tablet. Make sure it is still, so you are not wobbling around. When the screen is large and still, you will get more feel.

Before your virtual date, make sure you do a video and sound check. You don’t want technical difficulties ruining your chance at love!

Check your internet connection. Also, check your camera and microphone. Do this to ensure that you’re coming across loud and clear. By doing this quick check, you can avoid any awkward moments and focus on getting to know your match.

Even on camera, your energy level matters! Gesturing is important. Using your hands and body when you are speaking can really amp up your energy level. Smiling is the key to looking attractive, so smile more than usual (but not so big!). Trust us; this is the best video dating tip!

If you are feeling nervous, have a mocktail or tea to have it feel more like a date, and it keeps your hand busy too.

Same as physical dates, be prepared with a few rough ‘get-to-know’ questions. Read their profile and ask your date accordingly. The questions are good to ask that target their job, hobbies, family, and friends. It can save you when you hit a touchy subject. You can change it by asking a question and getting things back on track.

When dating is involved, especially online, awkwardness is inevitable. Don’t hesitate if the camera freezes or you cut another person’s talk. It will happen; just laugh it out. Don’t let awkward silences make the other person feel uncomfortable. Try to be friendly and approachable. Video dates can be challenging for someone.

During the date, if you know something to be appreciated, let them know. Why keep it to yourself? Appreciations make the other person feel more confident and relaxed. It’s a great way to connect. Don’t give compliments too early.

First, learn about the person’s emotional aspect and comment in a positive way. A few examples are:

• You have an incredible sense of humor
• You are really good at …. (depends on your conversation)
• Your thoughts are unique!

Don’t let the pandemic topic ruin your conversation. You want to have fun and get to know each other well. So talk about things that focus on you, like your interest, travels, a movie you watch, or a recent book you read. A big No to talk about your exes or how hard dating is. Also, don’t blabber about your work. Be creative and mention things you are passionate about.

It’s okay if your date doesn’t go as you had planned. You can exit if you feel like the conversation has buzzed out or you have nothing in common. Staying on the call is not mandatory. Treat the other person with utmost respect even if they don’t deserve it.

When you schedule your date, mention the timing, as it gives you a natural way to go out. If you don’t want to give any reason, you can say, “I have another call coming up” it seems 100% truthful too.